Gentle Parenting Methods That Confuse Older Generations
Gentle parenting vs. traditional parenting
When it comes to parenting styles, there is a huge generational gap. As times have changed, so has the consensus on what is best for a child's development.
GENTLE PARENTING: Empathetic communication
Gentle parenting is all about understanding and acknowledging a child's emotions. While being empathetic can help create a strong emotional bond between parent and child, some critics believe this can "soften"
the child, since letting the child let loose with their feelings may prevent them from learning to control their emotions properly.
TRADITIONAL PARENTING: Authoritative communication
In contrast, authoritative communication focuses on giving commands and expecting obedience without much input from the child.
While it can set clear boundaries and teach limits, it may lack an emotional connection, leading to tensions in the parent-child dynamic.
GENTLE PARENTING: Natural consequences
With gentle parenting, natural consequences help children learn from their actions. For example, if a child doesn't want to wear a coat, they might feel cold and learn the value of wearing one.
This approach lets the child learn from the consequences of his or her own decisions, but it may lack sufficient guidance that is needed in certain situations.
TRADITIONAL PARENTING: Strict consequences
Conversely, traditional parenting involves strict consequences for rule-breaking, such as time-outs or losing privileges like watching TV.
This approach aims to teach discipline and the importance of being obedient, but it may lead children to prioritize avoiding punishment over understanding the rules' purpose.
