Myths About Motherhood
14 Myths About Motherhood—and What The Experts Think
Motherhood is often defined by assumptions made based off of what is seen in movies, read in books, or well-meaning advice passed down from your neighbor’s grandma.
Sadly, most of what mothers are taught to believe are misconceptions that can do more harm than good.
Backed by experts in the field, here are 14 assumptions often made about motherhood—and whether they’re true or false.
Mothers always know why their babies cry.
A very common belief in motherhood is that mothers always know why their baby is crying. It’s why a lot of parents—both mothers and fathers—can sometimes have feelings of inadequacy.
This statement is false.
Experts say…
Crying occurs for a variety of reasons, including hunger, discomfort, colic, sleepiness, fear, a need to be physically close to mom, etc.
While many times a mother can easily figure out what the crying means and how to soothe her crying infant, there are times when no one can figure it out.
Mothers sometimes feel frustrated with their infants.
While there is no love like a mother’s love, many people believe that means a mother never feels unsettled.
This statement is true.
Experts say…
All mothers get irritated or frustrated with their child’s behavior at times, even the behavior of an infant. A lack of sleep, dehydration, and constant crying are only a few reasons why a mother may struggle mentally and emotionally.
It is a very natural and commonly occurring feeling for mothers everywhere.
